Vince and the Art of Caring

He worked the front lines in the hardest days of the HIV-AIDS epidemic. He's still living the lessons he learned.

Vince Engel on the deck of his Granville, Ohio home. Photo by Doug Swift.

Vince Engel on the deck of his Granville, Ohio home. Photo by Doug Swift.

When Vince Engel was a hospital corspman in the Navy, his supervising doctor asked him to sit with two sailers who were dying of cancer. Just sit with them, talk to them.

He learned a lesson about living with mortality that would last a lifetime. The lesson was especially useful uring the HIV/AIDS crisis in the 1980's and 90's, when Vince was actively giving lectures and comforting those who were infected.

In the following audio story, we hear that the lesson continues to this day, as Vince reflects on a life forged in the fire of an epidemic, and looks clear-eyed at his own present-day diagnoses.

Vince Engle in Provincetown, Massachusetts. "Provincetown is the Mecca." Photo provided by Vince Engel.

Vince Engle in Provincetown, Massachusetts. "Provincetown is the Mecca." Photo provided by Vince Engel.

Electron microscopy of human immunodeficiency virus (HIV)–1 virions. Courtesy of CDC (Dr Edwin P Ewing, Jr).

Electron microscopy of human immunodeficiency virus (HIV)–1 virions. Courtesy of CDC (Dr Edwin P Ewing, Jr).

The chosen family: David, Stephen, Vince, Fred, and Phil. Photo provided by Vince Engel.

The chosen family: David, Stephen, Vince, Fred, and Phil. Photo provided by Vince Engel.